It all starts in the search menu of an international dating site… A man sets his individual “search” parameters (the desired age of his future darling, her country of residence, the presence of children, body type, weight, height, hair color, and so on), presses the button “ Find” and begins to look review  through the female profiles presented to him in the search results. The first thing a man sees in the search results will be the main photo of the profile…

We will make a reservation in advance that we have made an attempt to describe the behavior of most men. Describing a certain pattern of behavior, it is impossible to foresee the manner of behavior, motivation inherent in individuals, individuals who may “not fit” into this pattern.

  1. Main photo of the profile

Looking through women’s profiles on an international dating site, from the results offered in the search, a man will select for himself and open that profile, the woman in the main photo of which he likes . If the main photo of the profile in the search results did not “rush” into his eyes, did not attract his attention, he would not notice the profile of this woman and he would not open it.

It is for this reason that we advise you to pay special attention to the choice of the main photo of your profile on an international dating site. You can find tips for choosing the main photo in the article “Choosing the main photo of a profile on an international dating site” .


  1. Additional Photos of The Profile

Having opened the woman’s profile, the man, first of all, will look at her other photos (additional photos that she added to her profile). Why? The answer is simple, on dating sites, men write to those women who initially attracted them outwardly (visually). Later, during communication, superficial sympathy will be able to strengthen and grow into a more serious interest, or the charm of the image created by the man’s imagination will show itself to be erroneous, will not find “confirmation” in a real woman.

Our Advice: Add As Many Good – international dating site

photos as possible to your profile on a dating site with foreigners . And this means photos that will not only show you from the best side (we are not talking about retouching photos!), But also like a man. You can read more about common mistakes made when choosing photos for an international dating site in the article “Photos for a dating site with foreigners: 10 mistakes” .

Only if a man liked the photos of a woman, he will continue to “study” her profile, move on to personal information YourLatinMates and data of the “ideal partner”. If the man did not like the woman in the photographs, he will not continue to read her profile.

It may also happen that a man is so amazed, “lit” by the photographs of the profile, that he, without reading the rest of the information or despite the discrepancies on some “points” (for example, the age range of the chosen one or the presence, absence of children), will rush to send the lady a message 🙂

You may ask, but what about spiritual qualities, character, inner world? In the questionnaire, no matter how voluminous it may be, it is impossible to recognize spiritual qualities. To understand the character of another person, to get acquainted with his priorities. Life goals and his inner world is possible only through personal communication. And personal communication may not take place if the photographs of the questionnaire leave the man indifferent.

  1. Questionnaire information – international dating site

After reviewing the photographs of the profile (and provided that they made a positive impression on him. He like the woman on them). The man will get acquainted with the rest of the information of the profile. A description of external data (height, weight, hair and eye color). Biography features (profession and education. Marital status, having children), “requirements” for a man with whom a woman would like to meet, hobbies and interests.

Most men will close the women’s profile. If they find in it an excessive interest in the financial situation of a man (in other words, signs of self-interest). “I will meet a wealthy / wealthy / rich man”, “he should have his own business”. “I want to live in a house by the sea”, “he should have his own house”, “I love expensive gifts” ... A man, regardless from the level of his income. Wants, first of all, to be love and accept for. Who he is, and not because of what standard of living he can offer.


We would also like to advise you to avoid manifestations of aggression, intolerance , pessimism and categoricalness in your questionnaires. “I hate…”, “I’m tired…”, “I don’t believe…”, “It’s sad…” …

Men pay special attention to the fact that a woman has children. The question of whether she allows her future partner to have children. The age range of her future partner, and the lady’s knowledge of foreign languages. Depending on whether. The photographs of the questionnaire made a good impression on the man. And the data indicated in the questionnaire coincided with. The ideas and expectations of the man, he proceeds to the next “stage”.

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