Are you struggling through the pain of a recent breakup, but you’re not prepared to give up and you want to get back the love of your man? Do you think your breakup was a big mistake and you can fix it and make the relationship work? Are you just looking for a way to convince the love of your life to give you another chance?
Getting back the love of a man who has ceased to love you can be difficult, but it will mostly depend on what caused him to fall out of love. Read on to see a quick run-through of how men lose their love for a woman and how you can get his love back.
The Great Betrayal
If you’ve wronged him and you now regret it and want to win back his love, you may have some serious apologizing to do. Don’t try to justify or argue your way out of it. You were wrong, so admit it, apologize for it and make it up to him. You now have to prove to him that you’re better than the action that initially hurt him enough for him to leave you.
Once we settle into a nice and cozy relationship, we sometimes take it for granted and stop taking care of it as we put our efforts into building a career or better life for ourselves. When we lose sight of the importance of the man in our life, we can sometimes end up losing the man.
If you’ve simply gone your separate ways and he now doesn’t see how you two can share a life together because of your differences, you need to find a way to compromise and find space for him within your life. Are you prepared to make concessions? Is there truly any room in your life for him?
Confront him now with your willingness to put enough importance into the relationship, and avoid explaining how you want to maintain the isolation that brought you apart, to begin with.
Sticks and Stones…
A silly saying if ever I heard one; of course words hurt. If you called him an idiot and he said you were the stupidest woman he’d ever known, it can sting. Imagine what truly harsh words can do. If you’ve had a heated argument with your man and you want his love back, give him ample time to cool off. Forcing the issue when wounds are still sore might exacerbate the situation.
Collect your own emotions and thoughts then meet him in a calm and casual setting. Be cautious if you decide to bring up the topic that got you into this heated argument, to begin with. It could very well blow up again. Take the time to consider well whether your argument is something losing his love over. Sometimes it’s worth losing the fight in order to get along and have a stronger relationship from LetmeDate.com.
Do you absolutely want to prove you were right at all costs or do you want to get his love back?